Friday, 9 May 2014

People evolve with time ; A person you knew yesterday may not be the same today.

People evolve with time ; A person you knew yesterday may not be the same today.

Judging others can become an automatic reflexe and a "thought pattern" which can be within you as TROJAN HORSE and destroy you when you are the most unaware. When you meet a collegue with whom you had some problem some 2 years before but today  you see him somewhere in a public place ,  what is your reaction...a flash-back risks to bring to your mind the negative impression you carry about that person  and will make you relive the feelings you had before two years .... But, why can't you give a second chance or better accept to  see that man as he is now , this moment not what he was some years ago ?
Why we have to refran ourseves from judging before the person had finished uttering any word  ?
Because our cuning mind will say, "if you judge others from a wrong percepion of the reality , then others also my judge you in the same manner. So, convinced that others may throw judgements against whatever you may do, you will simply feel completely blocked and cofined to a limited space where your real potential can not blossom and expand completely. If you want to be successful in your studies or in your job or in your business, then unfettered and uninhibited creativity is a "must".
Try this ; just take off your googles and see everybody without your mind popping out a brief summary of how you perceive them as in a cartoon. If , because of  jealousy you refuse to see another person in your  living space and deny the right to exist and occupy the space God has given him or her, then every time you meet that person, the hate for that person will cross the internal mental chatterng and come out openly in an ugly way. Free youself from jealousy and hatred giving you bad advise. They are traitors. Instead of embracing life with welcoming hands , instead of freeing yourself from " what they may think of me if I speak in public or what they may think of me  if i do this or that action, you just hope to eliminate all people of whom you have pre-judgements.
iF they carry bondages which make them inactive ad not jump in to the life actively realisng their "viswaroopa" that is expressing their full potential to give to the world what  God wanted them to give in making them take human birth , it is their problem not yours.
Remember the scene in films when they show a hero jumping and running in slow motion. In life, all the fear and blocages you carry plays as "automatic break" to your joy of being active and make you feel  as if you are pulled down by an invisible force whenever you want to pogress . Then you will ony be in slow-motion in life.  Visualise this scene to understand what your "judging reflexe" of others can cost you : Gullver lying down and unable to move because of hundreds of liliputians have tied him on the ground.
Or, imagine you have fallen in a tank full of chewing gum and when you come out you are pulled back by all the elastic sticky threads.These threads is  the "what others may think"  thought pattern expressing itself in many forms and making you afraid of speaing in publc for example.
That force blocking you from being active comes from the  fears about "what people might think  if i present  my idea " and the fears you carry for other people's judgement..your mind is a cunning jackal : it knows that you keep on judging others with an outdated outlook so you can logically cnclude that others too function like your mind , Your mind will murmur to your ears that " if my mind  function like this, it shoud be a nalural law so everybody should form quick and immature conclusions about me too". Mind gives you back what you give to others. People mutually try to unconciously act as mutual break to each other and prempting each other being "acive , creative , entrepreneurial and energetic '  creating hell here itself !  
Only solution  is to break free from the pattern "what others think of me like this or like that " ...etc, is not to do the same to others of which you are afraid of ..refraining from hasty judgements.
Jump in to action with a virgin mind, an immaclate mind and free your self from all breaks on your entrepreneurial, creatve instinct.

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