If thoughts are dualistic, than confusion will result

 You become what you think in your inner space; your thoughts always result by producing effects on your body; so, become aware of quality of thoughts that can prevail in you; They are not neutral but influencing you every second you breathe. If your thoughts roatate around  spirituality , than you will attract only people with those thoughts. If your interests are based on "how to become rich" than you will attract all things and people related to that interest. why ? It's because when same kinds of thoughts occupy your mind most of the time, they create a magnetic field; You should always think of only one goal : merging with the cosmic auspicious energy present in every atom and in every cell of creation. Your "Jivatama" will always long to merge with "Paramatma"; If by searching worldly success , you may be  successful  in those fields, that is, success may come in parts and will never let you feel a "hollistic" "complete" inner feeling of attained "the whole" but only a "part" of your goal. To be one with "Paramatma", you should be able to see everything and everyone around you as an extension of you and be able to know that you share with others the same essence you carry inside you ; If you want to be successful in any field , than your thoughts should be conherent and never fighting with each other and that your goal should be inclusive and as large as possible ( being in the space of vastness of cosmic energy and feeling that presence in every one and every thing) so that it also include the lesser dimensions in which you search succes like in your bussines, job, social status, money , family , children's future etc. So, it is not wrong to search worldly success on one condition that your inner goal should be turned firmly towards the desire of " residing in the space of auspiciousness"; If you upgrade your "petty" goal to the level of the "nobble" goal, than success will happen not only in the former but also in the latter level; Any doubt about your own capacity to live that philosophy will be known to others because when persons come near you, they will sense it and feel it; Because, your thoughts would have created an aura around you that communicate invisibly and inaudibly with others. Your continous thougts will be creating a magnetic field that others can sense and feel whenever they come near you. For example, if you have conflictual relationship with your boss, by simply visualising your boss with a smile whenever he comme towards you will do wonders ; by creating positive thoughts of your boss and let those thoughts remain in you for 3 days continously until your bio-memory accepts them, you can change the way your boss look at you; Your boss will first sense it but could not understand why he begins to like you ...but slowly if you are fully integrated in your words and actions and thinking of everything as your boss would have thought, than miracles will happen clearing off all conflicts.  If you think and act the way your boss thinks and acts, than conflcit will never pop up; So, if two antagonisitc thoughts can be inside you , than your body will listen to you and will be stuck in confusion even BEFORE others sense them; First the words you speak to yourself are first heard by yourself before they are heard by others. As a ROSE would say permanently inside it that it wants to be beautiful, you should also say to yourself what person you want to become firmly and in an unwavering manner.  If inside your inner space, your  thoughts  remain in a non dualistic space where no two antagonistic thoughts fight with each other,  than you can fully be reflecting what you are inside to the outer world. Your power of attraction will be at it's peak because the confusing thoughts having gone away, you would simply become what you want to become; what is worry? iT IS NOTHING BUT A SELF-DOUBTING OR A NEAGTIVE THOUGHT WHICH GOES ON POPPING UP CONSTANLY;  So if you are in a stable space inside you , you will radiate unity and not duality. So, you will be in the exact zone at the opposite end of the zone of worry,  that is,  where thoughts don't pop up to make you doubt of your own capacity and your own inner goal that you want to attain. When you surrender to ups and downs of your life , than dualistic thoughts diappear.  Better to accept all that comes in your life not with powerless feeling but with confidence that Cosmos will not abandon you. Be aware that you are powerful yourself because cosmos itself is inside you. Act, speak and think from that space of powerfulness and auspiciousness.  Aligning your actions with your words makes your mind lighter and joyful because lying splits you into pieces and multiplies your thoughts whereas when you are integrated with yourself, you will have less number of thoughts per second; they become unified and powerful; concentration is unity whereas duality is dispersion. So, when you surrender to life totally  and when you live life with integrity, you will experience more energy and less confusion.